Today is not the best day to talk about a subject so profound, but I have days out of date and did not want to miss more time. This week I have the afternoons off, makes a fantastic time, so as soon collect Ivan in the nursery we go around the park, a walk, take the afternoon and when I get home from dinner, baths and am not someone to take the computer. By the way ... I've had my afternoon! I finally look in the mirror I can not scare me.
The fact is that the post title is something I round the head for long. I learned many things since I am a mother, and one of them is that our children are a reflection of us, our behavior and our actions, we are a mirror to look continuously for better and for worse.
When a mother raises and how to educate your child a priori may seem easy, but day after day, the circumstances, the very nature of the children we put barriers that sometimes do not know how to circumvent. So what to educate longer as easy as it seems, to the extent of whether we will be doing well. Obviously nobody is perfect and makes perfect, but we always know when we're wrong?
One thing I found is that however much you try, otherwise your child will always try to imitate, and this for good is very good but for evil ... so I've learned to behave as I want to do my son, as I say in the title, lead by example, that my child develop behaviors naturally and not by imposition.
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while I found that not only educate my son, but I retrained myself, I'm starting to see this very positive not only in the face of my son, but for me. And is that sometimes we overlook the behavior or conduct that do not give importance and that basically all of us would make life a little easier.
One of the first things to imitate the children, they say the elderly. You can spend 3 months trying to tell your son thanks worse one day just say fuck thinking it learns and when you have it like a parrot repeating pussy, pussy, pussy , and release it for all, full of reason, and then think "hell, yes that means!".
And we think that children do not understand, you can select what you want to capture and what does not and that's a big mistake, because the children even if they seem so capture everything, then it is they who select what is most interest or cause they care.
I have passed that with Ivan ... specifically and especially when I am driving, I acknowledge that I am a bit gross and I go out demons through the mouth when someone makes a reckless maneuver. I noticed when one day he heard a honk and react before I heard Ivan say with his mouth " hiputa hombeeee, cabonesssss" say I was left with its legs hanging is not enough. So, with great effort, trying to say the least tacos possible, although we think it is impossible for us to hear, just in case. And the fact is that I'm getting better spoken (as admit, I am a Faltona, say more blocks that fit me in the mouth), now do not spend (or not trying to pass) the go, I shit in the milk and little else ... because we must lead by example.
And this could apply to thousands of situations ... raise my son by example I mean things as simple as just crossing pedestrian crossings and the green light (in fact I dare not skip the car through a red light because Ivan is watching everything and realize ), do not litter the floor, please ask for things, thank when I get to greet and say goodbye forever, not just on the street but himself ... I thank you for a kiss or a hug you, always give a good night before bed, I ask forgiveness when appropriate (if perhaps I've stumbled, I have stepped on or you've thrown something on the floor unintentionally) the same as when he does say something similar there to apologize ...
And could give thousands of examples and perpetuate the entrance because there are many daily habits ... can only say, or repeat, to educate my child is that I also re-educate, and deep down I feel good about it because sometimes we forget that small things that may seem silly make one feel a little better, herself at least.
And the satisfaction that people are surprised to hear or see your son and tell you "what brought this child" without a doubt pay it all.
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